Listening skills
are not automatic. We grow up communicating very differently from one another,
depending on a wide range of factors, gender being just one of them. But gender
is usually the easiest to focus our attention on because the generalizations
made about the genders hold a grain of truth in their words for all of us. Then,
the attention itself showed how the eye contact of listener and any else way. But
man and woman has different way how to listen the other when communicate each
other.
There were a
study about how man and woman listen, men listen with left side of their brain
and woman listen with both brain hemisphere.
a.
Males tend to focused on listening to information that
will help them to accomplish the task. While, woman generally concerned the emotional
message and the content of conversation is occurring and that they are able to
interact with another person. It’s sometimes affecting the relationship. In
short it just like woman is listener of people orientation because they hear
everything.
b.
Woman has great habit when listen, they include the
affirmative with head nodding or said “uhu” or “yeah”. They did it to give
response, show that they listen it carefully and understand what other said. Some
guys, actually do that, but basically, man give less agreement and didn’t show
directly that they give attention to the speaker.
c.
Woman has eye contact with speaker. While man usually
see other object when listening speaker.
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